Hello all need to vent

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Hello all as the title says i need to vent a little please reply or vent yourself .
Well i was laid off again for two weeks going back monday which is a good thing for how long who knows anymore lol .
My aunt died a few months ago who i was really close to earlier in my life she helped me thru some really tough times when i was like 5 yrs old .
Well i hadent seen her in a long time before she passed my fault completly.
We have been having it tight around the house to say the least as i know a lot of us have i know im blessed im not complaining or criing at all .
My aunt left me a small fund before she died that i or anyone else knew anything about but i am truely greatful it i am very careful with the credit cards so its enough to pay those off buy enough propane to get us thru the winter i hope pay off a personal loan .
My wife told me since i was using it to pay bills most of it she wanted me to build a new gaiming pc when my other pc went down i said :banana:
Well as any of you know when you sign back up for unemployment it takes a
while to get your money .
So im pretty broke right now so i was really counting on that check i mean i have like $3 lol .
Well i had to do all these diffrent things to get the money that my aunt left me i did everything to the letter triple checked .
I had to to mail the letter like last wednesday or thursday they told me as soon as they got it they would mail my check right away because of my need
for the money .
Well of course it took till today to get here they shoulkd have had it by last friday .
When the sent it too me i got all kinds of advertisements wanting me to become a customer blahblah like four letters besides the check of course
when it got here the banks were all closed where my wife works has like a small bank kind of thing in there building they told me that they would cash it no problem well when i opened it it had the wrong %&*%^*&(* name on it .

They put my last aunts last name as mine nowhere on any document the have should my name aand hers be the same they have my social all that crap they need to prevent this kind of stuff guranteed signature .
Well i called them today i got someone in customer service he checked everything and said it was there mistake well duh and would overnight a check on monday with the correct name .
I might not should be so mad but this is like a financial firm no wonder there failing like mad .
if you guys ahve anything to say or add feel free . thanks for letting me vent now for part 2 lol



I need some advice here guys where i work is at a cabinet shop i work in the door shop i have been there 15 years well we had 5 or so fulltime employees
since the economy hit the tank .
We got laid off well they hired my bosses daughter to come too work with us wo bascically what happened is im the only one that has been called back me.
The daughter and the boss who is her aunt well anyway i have tried to get along with her the best i can but she wants to reinvent the wheel in everything which i dont really mind but ,

She always tell the bosss any little thing she that she thinks i did wrong 99%
of the time it is stuff that dosent even matter like how i fold the work order papers everything i do she goes no dont do that do this .

But then sometimes when i ask her what she wants me to do she says i dosent matter to me im not the boss .
I will be honest she is one of the bosses daughters If i stand up for myself or disagree i will get fired .

I have very low self esteem i think they thrive on that you know like to keep me worried there arent very many jobs around here i am very under educated .I didnt finish high school i mean i read decent and i dont have like a real learning problem im in no way a genuis eithier lol ,

I know i need to stay there and work what i can but guys i think im going to have a nervous breakdown or something i know nobody really loves going to work but i honestly dread every morning i get up to go to work i really need to be working and i want to work my 40 Hrs but its like being laid off is my only break from there crap but then i get depressed because im not working .

I really am not a crybaby or wimp but i dont know what else too do any andvice i could look for another job but im afraid i will work like two months get laid off and cant even draw unemployement .
Sorry that was a long one feel a little better now any help appreciated.

[billygoat333]

damn man that sucks about the stupid people sending you a check w/ the wrong name.

and it sucks even more that you keep getting laid off. as for what to do, do you have the means necessary to maybe do some freelance work? might be something to look into, if you can.

as far as the boss's daughter situation, maybe you should speak to the boss about her inability to work welll with you. does she do it to the other employees when they are there?

[Liquid_Scope_99]

yes she does but my boss basically dosent want to here it because her brother would take it out on her i really beleive she can see whats going on but basically dont want to do anything i may look into some freelance work
i have done some but with the economy its spotty at best not stable it all .
It is something to think about +rep goat it helps just to talk to someone about it .

[killergamer]

My brother in law lost his job a couple weeks ago after being re hired for a month. He is a 9th level apprentice glazer so well on vacation he was able to hang out with me. Two days ago my sister was laid off after surviving a mass lay off months ago. She was the only one in the department after the mass lay off so now neither my sister or her husband have a job. Stupid lay offs...:down:

[Liquid_Scope_99]

i agree and feel your pain that daughter that was hired like a year ago has got 40 hrs every week

[Crazy Buddhist]

liquid,

In the UK if someone is made redundant another person can not legally be hired to fill that role. Redundancy means the job does not exist and hiring someone else into that role means that the person was fired and redundancy used as an excuse.

You have your job back so there is nothing you can do about that - even if the laws in the US are different - asnd especially as you rely on what crumbs you get now.

Your former co-workers who were made redundant, had that happened in the UK, would have a rightful case for "wrongful dismissal" and the fact a family member has been hired would count heavily against the company. If any of them feel aggrieved by this situation they might be in a position to take some action of their own against the company.

The situation you are in is certainly painful. On the one hand you are being shat on and on the other hand they can do so from a greater height and force, for example by making you redundant again, if you make any noise about it.

Unfortunately this means - at least in terms of this job - you need to put up and shut up. However, when it comes to the bosses daughter undermining you at work in front of the bosses don't put up with it. In those situations bide your time, choose your moment, then state calmly but firmly and surely - and with no malice - the truth of the situation. Never lose your calm - let others do that and dig their own holes. You don't want to lose your job yet unless you hold your own to some extent this person seems set on destroying your self-esteem.

In the mean time if you do not want to look for another job and get it then lose it in two months I suggest you take a two steps.

Firstly there is a very good book called "What Color is Your Parachute". This book will help you look at the kinds of work you like from a NEW PERSPECTIVE and help you discover what kinds of work you really want and what you will find true happiness and satisfaction. Following the exercises in the book will lead to new insights as to what possibilities your world offers. I can not recommend it enough .. and the title says it all .. the parachute bit refers to exactly the kind of situation you are in and how you make sure for yourself you get a soft landing.

Having worked through that book you will start to look for fulfilling employment with employers who can offer the stability you need. Do your research well on possible employers - know as much about them as they will surely want to know about you. Start researching the possibilities now.

The other issue I strongly suggest you work on is your self-esteem. It strikes me reading your post that this is an issue for you and probably long has been. There are many routes to this but by far and away the most powerful and direct is to learn to meditate. This will give you "insight" and self-knowledge, teach you about yourself and help you see you (and therefore the world) more realistically.

The book "Mindfulness in Plain English" is available as on online book a pdf and a real book. I'd spend a few ?(8$ or so) to get a real book. It will teach you all you need with no "religion" and then you can do it and see if it works (it does lol). Henepola Guranatana is the author.

You do not:

- need to join a cult, meditation group or church
- find a guru
- believe anything
- follow anyone
- Make funny noises

Just get the book read it and give it a sincere try. If you develop insight change happens spontaneously, naturally and healthily at a pace with no fear.

The Parachute book is in most public libraries.

Best wishes,

Matthew

[Airbozo]

Good info CB, The first book you mentioned is a good read for anyone interested in dynamics in the workplace and how to catalog your strong points and sell them.

In the US there are laws protecting workers from being fired or laid off (and blaming it on no work) just so an employer can hire someone else. Especially a relative. This is called nepotism and can get the company in a lot of trouble. It also sounds like the "daughter" is getting preferential treatment. That can also get the company in a lot of trouble. I was in a similar situation about 15 years ago. When I said something to the owner (and father of said daughter), I was fired. I sued, and got back pay and my job back (which I declined for obvious reasons), plus the California Labor Board fined the company and I got most of that as well. 2 of my co-workers also sued and the daughter ended up being laid off. Part of what helped is that we were a union shop. Once the union found out what was going on (long after I was fired), they also brought suit, and this is why the daughter was laid off.

Call the labor board in your state and ask some questions. You don't have to give names until you want to file a complaint, but they will let you know if your case has merit.


Stuff like this pisses me off, since I am in a situation where I have a worker that calls in sick all the time, barely does work when he is here and the work he does do has to be re-done. He also dresses like a gangster, despite being told repeatedly that his attire belongs in East L.A., NOT in a workplace. We have plenty of work and this guy has been given a great chance (never had any computer experience before our company), and is throwing it all away. I hate being played. Since I am not the manager, I can not terminate him, but I would have done so months ago. Just this morning I went into the GM's office and told him it is time for him to go. He is now affecting my production schedule and I will get yelled at for it. We are in the process of interviewing to replace him.

Anyone need a JR to Mid level computer assembly/Support position in the San Jose area?

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Thanks ,Crazy Buddhist and Airbozo guys you dont know how much this helps.
Crazy Buddhist i have already followed your advice on most of it about not blowing up .
I know from past experience not to say anything to make me look bad . I have no ill will personally toward her job wise is diffrent we talked about i pods just today but .
I did find a mistake she made today i didnt make a big deal i just said basically you made one we needed three or i cant find the other two . Instantley she blamed me i will for sure check those books out as soon as i get a chance if nothing happens i will start looking this weekend .

Im not going to just up and quit because i have a wife to think about but i have just about decieded to look around m wife was off today and called our local Career center.
The guy there told her that it would be based on our income which is pretty low if i told them what kind of job i was looking for they could help me get traning in that field .
If i get laid off again i would be basicaly instantley in .
The deal with her being hired was she was hired about 6 months before the layoffs started and everyone else was laid off she never was they basically told me were not going to lay her off because she cant draw and you can .

We all know thats not the reason but its an excuse and one left because they never got to work i think the other one there just not going to call them back .


Well i am going to check on those books do my thing try to stay under the radar . I do beleive i deserve better after 15 yrs of service .
Just today i was looking at places that are hiring the local staples needs a pc tech .
It says you just need to help customers with computers do memory ,hard drives ,os installs .
I know i can do all that stuff i dont know if staples is going to stay i havent heard any money troubles or anything i know it probablly pay what i make now to start i dont know about beneifts anybody ever worked there that would be a dream job .
My wife said she wouldnt care if i lost a dollar an hour if it made me happy go for it .
I feel better about it right now i dont know about the staples deal but in general of course i have to work with her by myself tommorrow so im just going to try and take it one hour at a time .

Airbozo
I know where your coming from there other daughter worked there a couple years ago that was she would be on the phone 3 or 4 hrs a day when she got tired she would just go sit down lol that was funny stuff .

Yeah she gets me jumped sometimes too telling me apples when they want oranges .

Anyone need a JR to Mid level computer assembly/Support position in the San Jose area? man i would love that but lol it would be an 2,330 mile one day 11 hour commute lol couldnt resist good luck on the search

[Crazy Buddhist]

Good info CB, The first book you mentioned is a good read for anyone interested in dynamics in the workplace and how to catalog your strong points and sell them.

....


Anyone need a JR to Mid level computer assembly/Support position in the San Jose area?

It's a great book.

What are the chances of swinging a green card with the job? lol

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Hello guys would you all mind watching this video from one of the guys my wife works with thats the diffrence in a good employer they were nice enough to let him do it a work its pretty good you can tell were from alabama lol

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TEqF8W-bhRs

[Kayin]

Let me know if it ever lets up, you're not too far away, you could come throw rocks at my idiots with me for a day. Or we could bench for a while, I could even provide some hardware.

Life sucks-I'm just now coming out of back to school (we're the only electronics store in town) and swine flu so I've been maybe halfway here for weeks on end. Add to that my already busy schedule and Mithril's board dying, and there ya go.

[Liquid_Scope_99]

lo thats a good idea which electronics store do you works at i finally got that check i was waiting on most everything is caught up thankful for that .

I have the moneu to build a pc unless something happens but , they have a combo on new egg the raitings arent too hot on the mobo i thought it was a good one though any thoughts . thanks in advance.

http://www.newegg.com/Product/ComboDealDetails.aspx?ItemList=Combo.238366

[Kayin]

The nVidia Intel chipsets were like 4 kinds of fail, and that's the reason for the ratings. Just ran very hot, had lots of memory failures, and were outpaced by X38/48 and P35/45.

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Well i went to my local staples to see about that tech job openong of course it wa already filled but the manager said he had an opening for a in the the computer area sales part .
I need opinoins all i really wanted the tech job but would this be a way to get my foot in the door and possible move up to the tech position if the guy ever leaves .
I dont know much about staples or would i probably be stuck there forever .
All help appreciated thanks in advance .

[Crazy Buddhist]

Well i went to my local staples to see about that tech job openong of course it wa already filled but the manager said he had an opening for a in the the computer area sales part .
I need opinoins all i really wanted the tech job but would this be a way to get my foot in the door and possible move up to the tech position if the guy ever leaves .
I dont know much about staples or would i probably be stuck there forever .
All help appreciated thanks in advance .

Everything changes you won't be stuck anywhere forever unless YOU CHOSE TO BE.

Do what ya gotta do. If the job pays a wage and if you need a wage and there is nothing better round the corner then take it, keep looking and see what happens.

CB

[Liquid_Scope_99]

hey thanks crazy i am laid off again worked two weeks this time boss said were going to be off for labor day you wont get paid which we dont anyway.
That dosent bother me its my boss bought a new truck during cash for clunkers then is going on vacation this weekend and next week thne says if i had the money i would pay you .

[Kayin]

Take the Staples job, I did the same at OD and worked my way into the system so completely they'll never get rid of me.

[billygoat333]

yeah, its always easier to move up in a company than to jump in at a higher level. thats for sure :)

it sure beats flipping burgers at least you can work with something you are interested in, even sales can be fun if you have the right attitude. :)

[Crazy Buddhist]

And you'll get cheap and discounted kit ... last of stock etc ...

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Good point guys i just hope i get an interview now i have no Experience in sales but i would do my best . thanks guys i really appreciate it .

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Well guys one of the things i am very self- conscious about is my lack of education.
I hate that typically illiterate,undereducated ,Moron ,redneck,stereotype given to people from Alabama which most of it is deserved well i have decided to do something about it starting next week in going to G.E.D. classes please do not make fun of me anyone i am 36 years old and undereducated i can read.

I can learn i may be a little slower than some but dont have a disability .

Does anyone know of a legit free place to practice up or freshen up for my GED.
As Crazy put it i am tired of being SHAT on and im going to do my best one step
at a time to better myself even if i have to take that test 20 times if i kive that long lol .
Thanks in advance .
T.B.C.S thank you all for your support so far

[Crazy Buddhist]

Man .. all power to you. Of course you can learn. Anything you exercise improves including our brain. You can get a degree if you want to. It just takes a little practice and work.

Start practicing your study skills and get a little headstart. It's good to move on up and forward.

CB

[Liquid_Scope_99]

thanks crazy yeah i have been googling places on the web in just very untrusting of sites i dont know anyone know of a good ged site?

[msmrx57]

If you have a technical college nearby they almost always have classes for that. If not then you should be able to find something online. And +rep for improving yourself.

[Liquid_Scope_99]

yeah i looked the local schools up will have to give them a call tommorrow .
I have looked online jsut cant decide thanks i have not done it yet the man i talked to at the career center said that if i get my G.E.D. that there are a lot of career training they will pay for .
Some are full college degrees i do not know if im ready for an associate degree
quiet yet.
there are a lot of computer related courses most i dont even know what they are lol .

[Kayin]

Don't let them think Alabamians are idiots.

Hell, I'm from Alabama. Please reference my articles, check my work and see if I'm dumb. When you get back, we can continue this in Latin.

Stereotypes. They piss me off.

Best of luck, let us know if you need any help brushing up on a subject...

[BerticusPryme]

Man no one is going to make fun of you. If they do let me know. Remember I am just a little bit away from you. If there is any help I can offer let me know and I will do everything in my power to do so. One thing you never do is make fun of a person when they are trying to better themselves. Especially a hard working individual as your self. I check local community colleges. Thats where some of my friends went to get there GED.

[Kayin]

You from Alabama too, Berticus?

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Kayin hey man lol easy now easy i know where not dumb well not all of us lol .
Its just some people why didnt i start thinking of this like ten years ago that was dumb .
Thanks bert oh btw roll tide lol ,
yeah kayin he hails in the AL lol he is how do you say transplanted lol just messing with ya bert . thanks again one thing i know i will have to work on a lot is the essay oh and there is math holy fraction batman
im in trouble there but i gotta start somewhere .

[billygoat333]

Im glad to hear that you are gonna get your GED. you will do fine man, def. look into the community colleges as a lot of them will have great programs to help you prepare for the GED. another thing to look for is go to your library and see if they have any of those GED test prep books. They have a lot of good info in them. my friend's brother ended up dropping out @ 16 from high school and got his GED and those test prep books helped him pass his, (and he is about as smart as a rock) so if he can do it, you for SURE can man. you are intelligent, just need the training now! like CB said, anything you exercise is gonna be better for it. :)

not sure about online options for GED, here (http://www.acenet.edu/AM/Template.cfm?Section=GED_TS&CFID=46441838&CFTOKEN=68687628&jsessionid=163050664082$0B$18Z$) is a link for the official GED site.

good luck!

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Thanks billygoat +rep for the link i am in the rock area myself lol .

I talked to the lady that teaches the classes it seems pretty flexible as well she said i could come in the morning on some days or at night .

I plan on starting next Tuesday i will have to start on the first day of the week.
I think one of my friends has some of the books you were talking about .

I checked some of the classes they will pay for like computer science and there were more than i thought they would have but ,I told my wife i need to get my GED .
First then i will look into that stuff i am also trying to work on my spelling and punctuation i know that needs a lot of work too.
I have even been watching some videos on you tube about essays .
Thanks for all the support guys you guys and my wife are about it .
Also i downloaded some podcasts on vocabulary and algebra .
I never took algebra so i am way behind the curve there i thought upgrading my vocabulary cant hurt and might help with the staples job . btw thanks for the link goat they have some sample questions that are at least show mw what im in for . Now i have spent half the day thinking i must go paly a game of ncaa 10 on 360 to give my brain a break lol thanks all .

[BerticusPryme]

awesome man. Just keep your head up as we all have faith in you. Yes kayin I am from alabama also. Benn here most of my life give or take a few years.

[blueonblack]

That is excellent! Best of luck and keep us informed, you need anything I can help with PM me.

[Kayin]

I'll help as well. An English degree as well as a logic degree can't hurt.

Where from in AL, Berticus? I'm in Tuscaloosa... (Tuscaloser, more like it-never seen a more backwards town.)

[msmrx57]

A lack of education does not mean a lack of intelligence. Like wise an education doesn't always make people smart. Kayin - agreed stereo types suck.

[BerticusPryme]

I live ina worse town than you do. small place called Haleyville. damn hole in the wall if I ever seen it. I work in jasper so it is a bit closer to you. Been to T-town way to much in my younger days. hehehe. Heck the 3 of us should meet up somewhere. HAve a mini TBCS meeting you know. ALso I really want to see that wooden case of yours and Liquid and I have been talking about getting together for a bit and discuss computers and modding.

[Kayin]

Have to finish moving my mother-in-law in first...

I'm from Jasper (the really bad part) so I'm familiar with all that. Where do you work? Lord knows I probably know right where it is...

[BerticusPryme]

Marshall Durbin. I manage all the pcs and computer related equipment there

[Kayin]

you can literally throw a rock and hit my childhood home.

[Liquid_Scope_99]

That would be cool to meet us the three of us i would not mind seeing that wood case myself .
What sucks is next week end the wife and i were suppose to go to one of my cousins weddings in Birmingham my aunt lives in Trussville I did to for a while in my youth i also lived in hoover and huffman for a while i was pretty rough there there sometimes . He has gotten very ill and might have to postpone the wedding .
Which it might be a while but , I would like to meet up sometime .

Oh yeah i went to staples today to talk to the manager .
I had not heard anything and thought i was out of luck i waited an hour too see him.
He said he has not had a chance to look at the apps but he took my name down and said 2 or 3 others had called about the jobs turns out its part time at this point i will work there and my other job too .
I think any thing to get experience will help .
I hope since i came to talk to him instead of calling helped a little anyway .

What was so funny while i was waiting he was looking at this ladies laptop
it too kfor ever then another guy came over i wanted so bad to go up and say can i take a look but thought the would freak out lol .

[Kayin]

When I get the house back in order, I'll have you guys up to the house. Granted, it's full of kids, dog, cats, fish and parts, but it's not too bad. Mithril's in sorry state, I'll have to get it whipped in line before then. Probably gonna double the CPU cooling capability of it. Parts are on hand, just have to put the work in and the water.

Maybe when I can travel better again I can come to you guys' neck of the woods. Currently working on getting a doctor to look at my back/knees...

[BerticusPryme]

I feel your pain witht he knee problems. during the winter I have to walk with a cane. yeah getting together would definatly be fun. I should have my new rig around january or so and have plenty of room at my place if you dont mind kids.

[billygoat333]

I'm jealous. I would love to see the mancave. lol

[Crazy Buddhist]

Partieeeeee at Berti's .. let me know the dates .. WOOT

[Liquid_Scope_99]

I feel your pain witht he knee problems. during the winter I have to walk with a cane. yeah getting together would definatly be fun. I should have my new rig around january or so and have plenty of room at my place if you dont mind kids.

Hey thats something else we have in common ,my knees and back are about shot the concrete floor at the shop isnt helping .


billygoat333 I'm jealous. I would love to see the mancave. lol
If your talking about my mancave itd not that cool live and in color how far away are you our house is very small . With me having mancave 1.0 and my wife having her craft room .
we dont have any spare rooms but im hoping change that in the future .
goat how far away from al are you ?

Crazy Buddhist Partieeeeee at Berti's .. let me know the dates .. WOOT

Hey i ahve heard of those its where people get togehter and have fun .
Been so long since i went to one almost forgot .
The best ones are when you wake up and how the ........... where am i oh yeah lol. There have been a lot of days pass since back then ,

Well it gets better i was laid off two weeks then worked two weeks then got laid off last week .
I have been called in to work next week guys if it wasnt for me really neading my insurance i would bail for something else right now . I will have to hang on for now .

[Crazy Buddhist]

Hang on in their bro. Keep making applications and use the time to do the good work you have decided to do in honing your learning skills.

Always remember, whatever **** life may throw at you the main thing is how you choose to respond to it.

Matthew

[Liquid_Scope_99]

yeah i was just venting lol

[billygoat333]

I hail from the great potato state of Idaho. so A LONG ways away from AL, probably in the 1200 mi + region. haha

[Liquid_Scope_99]

yeah that would be quiet a jog lol

[Liquid_Scope_99]

I revived this thread instead of starting a new one i am working again for now.
I was just laid off two weeks ago i am hoping that things will be better this spring like everyone else i guess .
The reason i would like to stay is because i have all my vacations and things built up and also with me working 4 10 hour days it leaves me time to try to get my own things going.
The situation with the bosses daughter isn't getting any better we don't say 10 words to each other in a day . Which is fine by me but i am over it now .
I have one possible opportunity as a police dispatcher in a local town here .
My wife's aunt is good friends with the chief he says they are desperate it has benefits is full time and there willing to train on the job .
I don't know what it pays it would have to be close to what i make it would be 3rd shift like 4 on 3 off and 3 on 4 off i think my back and legs could definitely
use the break .
Does anyone have any experience being a dispatcher i have been putting in applications for part time at other places and help appreciated .
hopefully i will know more soon .

[Trace]

Good luck dude
Hope things improve

[Liquid_Scope_99]

Good luck dude
Hope things improve
Me too me too .
thanks man

[billygoat333]

Here in idaho they pay pretty decent for dispatch, a lot more than I make. lol I believe it starts around 15 bucks an hour.

[Liquid_Scope_99]

yeah that's a lot more than i make too lol .
I'm seriously going to look into it it is like a real small town around here lol liek all are around here .
I have been asking around and searching around and if i could get in there and do that for a while that would get me experience to maybe go for a 911 dispatcher job . which the local one isn't for at all i was reading up on Google last night and said i could call and request to sit in on a 911 dispatcher during a shift to get a feel for it .
It maybe an opportunity ,i sure don't have any of those where i am now.
I was laid off two weeks ago then got called back last week and i thought surely since i had a vacation coming for Christmas and we will only work 3 days or 30 hours the week of Christmas and be off until the new year basically i need 6 days of work to get me through the month .

I thought surely after like 15 years i could get that i could do the small routine maintenance on the machines and cleaning them for two days anyway lol they need it .
My boss after getting all pissy with me today that she thought i didn't get enough done while she was gone of course she couldn't see half of what i did because she was gone .
She tells me to call her Saturday and she will let me know if i should come in or not Monday.
I just pisses me of that the daughter is getting all the hour been all year i haven't said one word about any of that to them anyway no gripping ,complaining or anything and i cant get 6 freaking days .
I wanted to talk to my boss today and tell her how i felt about the last year but was afraid if i started i could not stop lol . So i dump it all on you guys who have problems of there own and probably a lot worse than mine thanks again guys for letting me vent .

[billygoat333]

its better than taking assault rifles to church. :D

seriously though, dont worry about it. thats the great thing bout this board, we gots each others backs :P

[msmrx57]

its better than taking assault rifles to church. :D

seriously though, dont worry about it. thats the great thing bout this board, we gots each others backs :P

I'll agree with that completely. Hope it works out for ya.