Troublesome times

[LiTHiUM0XiD3]

Since TBCS is asmuch of a family as ive had in a long time... i figured i would let u all know this...


the other day i broke up with my fiance.. of 2and a half years..
i thought i was gunna marry this woman.. settle down with her...
but ifound her facebook open... and saw some stuff i rly wish i hadnt...
im absolutely heart broken...
now im on the look out.. for a new home.. a new life... hell a new direction...
im goin insane with how much it hurt...
i know i cant let it hold me back... but its soo hard to look anywhere forward from here...

[Luke122]

Stay strong buddy, we are all in this together (as Red Green says).

There's plenty of opportunity in Alberta if you are interested. ;)

[LiTHiUM0XiD3]

if i could afford goin out that way.. and could find a place.. i might jump on that lol.. i nee to get away... i see too much that reminds me of her... :'(

[blaze15301]

wow man that happen with a girl i was dating for a 1 and a half she said she was going to a picnic found out she was seeing another guy. just think about it like this you know you was true to her. its her loss your gain. stay strong man.

[x88x]

Sorry to hear about that. I suppose at least finding out now is better than later though? Just always remember; life has its ups and downs, but in my experience, two things are certain: time heals most wounds, and life is what you make it. Keep pushing on and I'm sure things will improve.

Good luck in your search. The job market around here is pretty good, but I suppose if Alberta is too far, Maryland is really too far. ;)

[Diamon]

Better to have loved and lost then not loved at all.

Hardcore cliché but still true.

[Spawn-Inc]

sorry to hear, i've yet to dabble in such things due to lack of money and well social awkwardness but i couldn't imagine that happening.

as others have said stay strong and positive.

[Okele]

This will sound cold, and I really don't mean for it too. It's better now before you're married, because after you're married it will cost you at leat half of everything. You are so much better off ending it now, imagine if you guys would have had kids.

I know it sucks, and Im sorry you're going through it.

[artoodeeto]

This will sound cold, and I really don't mean for it too. It's better now before you're married, because after you're married it will cost you at leat half of everything. You are so much better off ending it now, imagine if you guys would have had kids.

I know it sucks, and Im sorry you're going through it.

what he said. Believe you me, better that you found out now, as much as I know it hurts. If you'd gotten married and then found out, not only would you have the same amount, if not more heartache to deal with, but there'd be all kinds of messy legal and financial crap to sort through...not something you want to do when you're in a bad emotional state.

I went through a surprisingly easy divorce a number if years ago given how awful the relationship was leading up to it, but it still was one more hurdle to deal with, and I now wish with all my heart that we'd broken things off before getting married.

I think the best advice I can give you is allow yourself enough time before dating anyone else so that you know you're ready, and don't be afraid to trust someone again. It's the only way to have a strong, meaningful relationship. I'd recommend talking to family, friends, even a counselor (I took the family/friends route after my split), it really helps.

I'm really sorry that it happened the way it did, I know "it's tough" doesn't begin to describe it. But, things can only get better from here, right? :up: and they will!

[billygoat333]

basically everything that artoo said, coming from someone who has been divorced, be thankful you found out before you got married. its a lot easier in the legal sense. sucks emotionally though. just know that time really does help. just know that each day is gonna be better than the last.

[Snowman]

Okay I am going to go completely the opposite direction as everyone else here but as I have been in this type of situation before, and we turned things completely around and actually managed to build a stronger relationship than what we had before. I am not saying it didn't hurt and I am not saying it will work but before you walk away from everything take the time to think if there is something there worth saving.