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Spawn-Inc
11-12-2010, 12:11 AM
sorry to start a silly thread, but i've been drinking and keep thinking about my dad who passed away last month. i guess i'm just looking for someone to talk too. everything i do ****ing reminds me of him. i'm not sure what do to about it,
it's just no fair. i miss him so muhc.
i just don't know.
dooglo
11-12-2010, 12:52 AM
Sorry to hear about your loss. I know from personal experience that drinking does not help. It may seem like it does, but it really doesn't. Were you two close?
D.
Spawn-Inc
11-12-2010, 01:06 AM
i don't normally drink to solve issues and i didn't plan on it tonight lol.
ya we were close, we had our good times and bad. we spent the last 4 months or so dealing with him having having a cancerous brain tumor. it just sucks so bad... i know life will go on and all but i just don't know what to do.
blaze15301
11-12-2010, 01:50 AM
im sorry to hear about your dad. but please stop drinking it isnt the way to go. for the past 6 months ive had to watch my youngest uncle sit in a hospital bed and die becuase hes been drinking since he was 13. its not pretty at all.
TheGreatSatan
11-12-2010, 05:20 PM
My dad died when I was 12. Your life keeps going. Make a dedication mod :D
billygoat333
11-13-2010, 10:57 AM
My dad died when I was 12. Your life keeps going. Make a dedication mod :D
I like this idea. Time to bury yourself into something to get your mind off things. That usually works best for me. Pick up a new hobby. Maybe take a break from those activities that usually remind you of him until you can do it with fondness instead of emptiness.
We here at TBCS have your back, sir, and mourn with you. Be careful and focus on the positive experiences you had with your dad. :)
My sympathies, man, if there's anything we can do to help, just say the word.
Like BG said, focus on the positive. As I like to say, mourn the death, but don't forget to celebrate the life.
:facepalm: Doh! Sorry Spawn...talk about a typo....
Spawn-Inc
11-13-2010, 07:46 PM
lol, nice typo.
it was just a random night, i rarely have beer anymore, only when i go out with friends basically. i guess it's just because i tend to bottle things up more then i should.
i'm enjoying my new hobby of shooting but my mom doesn't like it one bit so i can't get out as much as i don't really like to lie to her about it. but at the same time i don't want her to know so she doesn't have to worry or what ever it is she doesn't like about it.
Liquid_Scope_99
11-14-2010, 03:54 AM
Yeah i know its really tough losing your dad .
I did 12 yrs ago it will take a while but there will be a time when you remember something that you two shared it will be with fondness instead of sadness.
blueonblack
11-14-2010, 04:26 AM
As usual I'm coming in late, so I'll have to reiterate what others have said. Get involved with something, stay busy and remember the good things. I lost my mother 15 years ago and her father (who raised me) two years after that.
Yes, I still miss them, and there are still regrets and sadly I think there always will be, but the good far outweighs the bad. You will get to the point where you can smile about your dad instead of hurting. It takes time, and I know that doesn't help much now, but it will come.
Focus on the good and knowing what he would want you to do at this point.
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