Bonjour Guys!

[gaz_the_chav]

I just wanna say hello as I wont really be here at the minute - On christmas day my wife gave me divorce papers. My mum and step-dad tell me exactlly the same and at 20 years of ages, my wrists will never be the same. You guys are my family thanks all! Someone out there must know the answer please help lol!

-gaz

[nil8]

There aren't any easy answers to this. Relationships are hard and painful when they fall apart.

Don't bury your problems is my only advice. Resentment and anger built up only hurt you.

[gaz_the_chav]

**** man anger build up

I goit done rouind the canister by a chair by my ex-misses brother friday that brings anger to me I dont know what to do Mean **** I am completely ****ed up0 atm and it ent going to change for a whikle.

gaz'

[b4i7]

dude...im really sorry bout that... if ya need someone to talk to hit me up on yahoo or such....if ya need to vent ****...im always open to help

[tybrenis]

Just remember that we are here for you, and it's only a stage in life. Don't do any rash or unadvised - 5 years from now you'll just be looking back.

[Omega]

In 5 years, I'll celebrate the 5th year anniversary of this post.

[tybrenis]

In 5 years, I'll celebrate the 5th year anniversary of this post.

Lol

[Zephik]

This might or might not help you, but it helped me.

After my breakup earlier this year, I thought and thought and thought about it. I spent alot of my time thinking about everything and this is what I came to for a conclusion.

People fall in love and people fall out of love.

It just happens. Could you of done something to change the outcome? That doesn't matter. What matters is that you look towards the future and don't make the same mistakes again. Move on in your life, as hard as it is. A good bit of advice though, would be to be around people and do things that make you happy. I never wanted to be around people, I always wanted to be reclusive and dwell on my pain, but that is dangerous and very unhealthy. It is much much much better to try and do your best to move on. To me, divorce papers means that either she doesn't want to try and fix things or she already gave you the chance to do so and you failed. It's not the end of the world, she's not the only girl out there, so try your absolute very best to move on with your life. You'll be much happier if you can do that. If only for us, we want you to be happy!

I hope I helped you, if even a little. I wish you the best of luck for the future, as it is always approaching and never ending. Make the best of it.

-Joshua

[Aero]

dang man, thats blows. Like Ty said, we're here for ya. TBCS is like on big, happy, semi-dysfunctional family.

[ESX]

I'll try to help you as much as I can, its just that I've got a totally different view on relationships atm.

[gaz_the_chav]

Sorry guys I was arseholled last nite and I shouldent of put that **** on you guys

-gaz