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Aero
08-06-2007, 01:14 PM
Hello everyone. Yall may have noticed my disappearance from the forums for the past little while. I just thought I would explain why I fell off the face of the earth.

Well, most of the time I was gone has been because I have been getting ready for college and planning several trips. I leave August 18th for school in Prescott AZ. I am attending Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University. Now Prescott is a mere 1800 miles from my home in Chicago, so I have been trying to get together everything that I will need. Normally college students can split the cost of this stuff with a roommate, but I just learned my room mate is coming from India, so he can't really bring too much with him.

Now as I said, I was also planning 2 trips. The first of which was a road trip that one of my friends and I have been wanting to go on for a long time. Well, with certain time restrictions we had to change that to a backwoods camping trip to Land Between the Lakes in Kentucky.

The second trip is actually a road trip with my dad to Prescott. Him and I were to drive out there with all my stuff, take a few days, and travel the old Route 66. Both he and I were really looking forward to this.

Now just a few days ago, I found out that the odds are neither of those trips will happen.

About 2 weeks ago my mom and dad went on their own getaway to Michigan. While on that trip my dad thought he hurt his back. He came home, iced it, rested, but it still hurt. Then he got a cold...or what we call walking pneumonia. Now normally that would be enough to make life miserable, but no, theres more. He goes to the doctor and the doc asks for several xray and an ultra-sound. After these we find out that his heart is the problem.

See my dad has a bad mitrol valve. Basically when his heart pumps, blood enters, and then upto 40% of the blood can leave again due to the bad valve. Making his heart work harder. Couple that with the fluid in the lungs from pneumonia, and you got trouble. Now there fluid around his heart that is caused by an infection aswell.

So heres the summary:

I leaving for college (1800 miles away) in less than 2 weeks.
My dad has pneumonia, a bad valve on his heart and will need to have that fixed soon.
But that can't operate untill he gets over Pneumonia.

So now the good news. My dad has his own business with one other person (co-owners). And about 3 days ago they had to decide whether to keep their insurance the same, or lower it. They were going to lower it, but then decided to keep it the same. Talk about luck.

Crazy Buddhist
08-06-2007, 01:28 PM
Best wishes for your father's speedy recovery and for you at college. I'm glad you can still see the sunny side within all this. It helps.

CrazyB

lukeisthecoolest
08-06-2007, 01:32 PM
believe me ur dad will be just fine and visiting you at college in no time ;)

and i hate you for being so lucky and living in AZ :( y can't i have been born there!?!?!?!?

have fun in college and don't get too drunk ;)

xRyokenx
08-06-2007, 01:33 PM
Good luck... it seems as though there is more tha mid life crisis, a "start of adulthood"/"welcome to the world" crisis to go along with it. I believe mine is already finished in all but the mental sense, I still have scars that have yet to heal.

I wish you the best of luck man, and a speedy recovery to your dad. Have fun at college, I'm quite sure that you will learn quite a bit from your Indian roommate... it would be quite interesting to speak with someone from another culture...

Sakker
08-06-2007, 02:36 PM
Good luck at Embry, and a speedy recovery for your dad. Have fun in college, The first year is interesting to say the least. I'm currently in my second year, and have not been home for more than a week since freshman year started (getting kind of homesick atm). If I remember correctly your going into aeronautical engineering, I wish you the best of luck, its a hard field of study.

AJ@PR
08-06-2007, 03:20 PM
Best wishes for your dad... and have a great time in college.

Go meet as many people as you possibly can.
Get engaged in as many activities as you can.
Go out with as girls as you can. (or guys =\)
College is great... and as Luke said, your dad will be visiting in no-time. :)

Crazy Buddhist
08-07-2007, 03:39 AM
Go out with as girls as you can. (or guys =\)
College is great... and as Luke said, your dad will be visiting in no-time. :)

College is great.

For the first time in their lives all the girls and guys get to mix all night long with no parental supersvision on a daily basis.

:D

CrazyB

(The artist formerly known as CassanovaB)

Aero
08-07-2007, 12:13 PM
Haha thanks guys. Now to everyone who is telling me to do _____ with girls. Embry Riddle is notorious for one thing, its lack of girls :P. Theres only 1800 students on campus, and 17 in 100 are girls. So the competition will be fierce.

Oh and its a dry campus ;), which will make it even harder.

So I'm alittle less worried about my dad now. I found out the guy who is doing his surgery is one of the best. I guess he does something like 390 of these surgeries each year, so he knows what he is doing.

Crazy Buddhist
08-07-2007, 12:28 PM
Haha thanks guys. Now to everyone who is telling me to do _____ with girls. Embry Riddle is notorious for one thing, its lack of girls :P. Theres only 1800 students on campus, and 17 in 100 are girls. So the competition will be fierce.

Oh and its a dry campus ;), which will make it even harder.

So I'm alittle less worried about my dad now. I found out the guy who is doing his surgery is one of the best. I guess he does something like 390 of these surgeries each year, so he knows what he is doing.

If the option exists to take a year internationally do it in England .. English Girls love American guys and we are the least dry nation on earth.

Good news about your fathers surgeon and best wishes that all goes easily.

CrazyB

armadilloben
08-07-2007, 10:23 PM
hope ure dad feels better and good luck at collagde and my dad also has a mitrol valve problem mitrol valve prolapse