that makes since when i read that but i though i would try a couple of things before buying new lights.
1st i unpluged the ps and took off all wires from the mobom hard drves, lights, and etc.
Then waited an hour and plugged all the system stuff and leaving off all of the lights
I reserved wire directly from the ps to dedicate it to power the lights
and then i plugged it all in and it worked and i turned off the lights and it didnt freeze. YAY
so i think the probem might be that i had too much power going thru to little of wires.
thanks for all ur time