As I write, I find myself throwing in asides that reference things like breeding capacity, cougars, etc-without ever saying a foul word or anything openly crass. I am wondering, though, if it's possible to keep from losing my core audience if I keep making references and courting euphemisms. I don't write trashy stuff, but I have no problem with portraying people (and meta-people) as real, breathing, needing (and sometimes lusting) people. My problem is, what do you consider to be grown-up, and what do you consider adult? Please, cite specific games if you can-I need this information literally to advance. I'm trying as hard as I can to make this the game we wanted to play back then (grown-up, realistic somewhat story) for the people we are now, but I need the community's help. So tell me, where do YOU think it crosses the line from grown-up to trash?