Yes the cooler comes with the fixings for just about anything .. I have the baby version 92m fan .. the full size version is with a 120m fan search the forum posts for Noctua and I think you will find posts where I linked to reviews. It way outperformed cheapo watercooling setups and is superquiet (i.e. <20 Dba) and was within a whisker of the thermaltake spawn highly recommends for performance.
ps regarding your friend .. and me ... and anyone else ... I think you have to look inside for the answers.